忍一时风平浪静, 退一步海阔天空
有时候, 就算你知道你自己是对的而对方是错的, 但也不需说太多做太多
硬强迫对方接受，和对方理论反而会弄得大家都不开心
take a step back and close the issue
no point in arguing or pursuing your stand too much
not when the other party can't see your view or refuses to budge
just close an eye and take it with a pinch of salt
of course, it also depends on who you're dealing with
loved ones or close relatives...yes I'd back off...
my relationship is more important to me than whatever petty thing we were talking about
will this cause 内伤?
cos sometimes I do feel a little indignant inside even though I choose to back away....
I don't know
maybe I'm just a true Libran....avoider of conflicts and just wants peace and harmony....
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