A xiaodi of mine initiated a converstion with me on MSN yesterday.
Was kind of pleasantly surprised. Since the last he contacted me was like almost 2 years ago when I left LHUB.
The usual pleasantries. How are you? Where are you now?
Still got cheong or not? Still got go Dragonfly or not?
Blah blah.
And then came the perennial question: When are you (i.e. me) getting married?
I said "Wait long long. That one no more."
The usual "Oh Sorry."
And the usual whys, hows, how comes.
I don't mind sharing some surface knowledge with people.
But I hate it when people start getting judgemental and assumptious and start acting like a psychologist.
He said "I don't think you are feeling ok."
And this was after just 2 or 3 sentences of conversation.
In my heart, I went ballistic.
WTF? I don't know how I myself am feeling meh???
I appreciate your concerns yes...but I don't need you to analyse me.
Or act like a shrink and try to dig deep. Sheesh.
But of course I couldn't start screaming at him over MSN.
Cool cucumber. Cool cucumber.
He's just showing his concerns. Albeit in a manner not so suitable.
Nvm.
He's a xiao di anyway. 4 years younger.
I'll be the nice dajie and forgive him. :)
Too much anger in the world for me to add more to it.
This sista shall chill........
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