Hmmm...

It's interesting to note how some folks consciously or sub-consciously self-invite themselves to your functions. Functions which you have not even started planning for.

Before I had my wedding dinner, I heard these: 

"Must remember to invite me to your wedding ok!"

Or

"When are you holding your dinner? I want to be there."

And now, even before Little Baby is born: 

"I'm sure you'll be having a manyue celebration right? 记得要请我ok"

Or

"You're having the one-month old celebration right? You can return the stuff (which I lent you earlier) to me then."

Hmmm...lol.