Words

A couple of days ago, there was a tragic road accident involving a BMW which crashed into a shophouse along Tanjong Pagar Road. All 5 in the car (including the driver) perished. All were guys aged between 26 - 29. Still young, they had many years ahead of them and I'm sure they had their aspirations and dreams as well. 

The accident happened in the early days of CNY and in the sleepy non-eventful days where Covid-19 seems to be the only news around...the accident shocked the nation and sparked many articles. And with articles of course came many online comments. 

There were sympathies, condolences, words expressing shock and sadness at such a horrific incident. And then there were the trolls and naysayers. Others with words of admonishment and anger. Some words were harsh, too harsh to be posted online in a public space. 

I cannot fathom how people, men and women alike, young and old alike, could muster up such cruel, evil and unfeeling words to admonish the deceased. The guys have already lost their lives, there's no need to say such unkind stuff. It disappointed and shocked me somewhat. That such vile words can come out of people. 

Like for the younger ones, do they speak this way or express their feelings this way to their parents?? Do they use such harsh language? Just because their words were expressed in an online space doesn't mean their words can be fully unadulterated. Hiding behind the veil of "freedom of speech" is nonsense as well. Freedom of speech does not mean you can be disrespectful and vile. You can still express your views in a civil, respectful and diplomatic manner. 

Gosh, I hope my kids grow up understanding this. It it not ok to be unkind under the guise of "freedom of speech".