Thursday, March 02, 2006

enigma aka jianming

Another bro of mine...funny how we knew each other...been quite long...since 2000 or 2001, when the FunkyGrad forum was still up and running..
Yet, we only knew each other better last year..and somehow, within this short period of time..he's been there for me as much as I can remember.
With lots of words of encouragement, lots of listening-ear sessions...some late night MSN chat sessions or even during office hours...and lotsa advice...

Just had a very engaging conversation with him on MSN. We've not met up all this while..yet he's able to grasp spot on of all my thoughts and emotions.
Think we're alike in many ways...emotional people. Very in touch with our emotions, and henceforth our fears and insecurities...

One important thing he told me tonight.
"It's ok to fall. It's ok to feel vulnerable. The trick is in managing those fears and insecurities and not let them cripple you. Don't beat yourself up over things."

And just before he went to bed, he left me with this...
"If you feel unloved...remember this...i love you...i love you to death....and many people do as well...it's gonna be alright."

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